
Hi, I'm Lex, and my purpose is to facilitate transformative experiences that expand our human capacity.
I am a Certified Embodied Facilitator, coach, trainer, and mentor specialising in embodied relational skills, responsible uses of individual and collective power, trauma-aware facilitation, and boundaries and consent as tools for thriving relationships.
My work is shaped by more than 20 years of embodied practices and an unusually broad range of experience with power, leadership, relationships, and transformation.
I spent 10 years studying and teaching martial arts, 18 years building a career in marketing and corporate leadership, and started my obsession with power dynamics when I completed my MBA dissertation on followership in the workplace. Alongside that, I pursued extensive professional training in embodied facilitation, coaching, relational work, and power dynamics - including training as a Certified Dominatrix as part of a deeper exploration into power, consent, and psychology.
In 2021, I left corporate life to dedicate myself to this work.
For me, embodiment is not a trend or coaching add-on. It is a long-term commitment to developing awareness, range, resilience, and relational capacity in both my professional work and personal life.
As a queer solo parent, I understand how difficult it can be to step outside of norms and build a life that feels genuinely aligned with who you are! I have felt the tension between the desire to be seen for who you are and the need to protect a sense of belonging. And I appreciate how that can lead us to stay small, disconnected, or hidden to feel more comfortable or safe. I also know, however, the aliveness that comes from knowing yourself deeply, inhabiting your body fully and unapologetically, and relating to the world from that place.
I am in my element when dealing with all of the complexity, contradiction, and nuance that real-life relationships bring, and love the challenge of creating models and frameworks that help people to make sense of their experiences.
Want to discuss the ways we could work together? Get in touch!
